Ask QC: Cumming On Time

Ask QC is the dedicated place for all of you to connect, support & share your wisdom!

This time domini asks:

Cumming On Time

hey guys…

i have this problem from a very long time and im just wondering if other folks are facing this kind of situation too. i have trouble reaching orgasm if i am having sex with someone. it doesnt matter if the guy im with is my type or not, i could not an orgasm if i dont jack myself off. and even then it takes an unusually long time to reach climax. i dont get this problem if i jack off, only when i have sex.

it places a burden on my boyfriend because he thinks i dont want to have sex with him. its making me anxious to cum and that makes it even more difficult for me to cum because of the anxiety. i have already explained to him, that this happened to me before, to all my previous hook-ups, but i know if he believes me. dont get me wrong, i have no problem getting an erection, i just i have difficulty cumming. think of it as a reverse pre-mature ejaculation, only i could go for hours and not cum, and its not as good as it may sound. any suggestion or insight on overcoming this? thanks.

Need advice? Just post your questions and the QCommunity will get you some answers!

We’ve made it easy for all to join in – no fuss, no new accounts, just log in with your regular Disqus account that you’re already using here!